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LILO 4: Flow of Ideas - Coggle Diagram

- - - - We operate in relation to big other - defiance or compliance or...
        
        Omnipotent observer, always present, gaze - the eye for which we perform
        
        Relationship to structures of power
        
        Privilege - punishment - - - prohibition - permission
        
        Is there a big other really?
  - - - Prohibition eroticizes
        
        Enactment of consensual non consent?
        
        What does it mean to acknowledge need for safety and need for adventure in the sexual
        
        Feminism and sexual fantasies: Is there something inherently wrong about violent fantasies? Or is it about consent?
- - - - Solidarity not just so we can fight better but because it feels so good!
- - - - Provocative people
        
        Murky - not a clean/neat person - who are not easily likeable but who can't be ignored either - Falguni Pathak, Micheal Jackson, Meneka Guruswamy etc
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        Collage on one wall of these cards?
        
        What all is in the room - what all is wishing to come in the room
      - Share about why you picked what you picked with the people you interact with
- - - - Lens of the Psyche/ Unconscious
        
        Personal + Collective
        
        Not cut away from material reality - psyche impacts material world and vice versa
        
        Some Key Concepts
        
        Lack
        
        Rupture in imagined oneness with the mother
        
        Fantasy of Continuity
        
        Love as site where we see psyche at play
        
        Love: seemingly irrational things we do in it- - - love itself feels irrational
        
        Love is decentering - view the world from the lens of more than yourself
        
        Not just in coupledom but also in a political context? Opens possibilities - newness, solidarity- - - what do we feel for comrades? connection, intimacy, passion, commitment (through thick and thin)
      - Safety is rational and adventure is irrational?
- - - - We want certainty but how certain can we be?
        
        Fantasy of Certainty
        
        Wonderfulness of uncertainty
    - - Push and pull between the two
        
        We resist both safety and adventure and the combination
        
        We don't often find this mix in our personal lives - OR- identify moments of the combination of safety and adventure in personal live - - - towards identifying moments in collective life
    - - Unlikely Looking Adventures- Aggression - safe enough to be aggressive- - - Right wing politics
        
        Even in progressive politics - enjoyment of aggression towards each other
        
        Calling out privileges is important - and yet what else might be going on there?
        
        Control and certainty? Control over resources, power, "how things should be", rigidity against openness
    - - Rules - that allow exploration
        
        Anonymity allows one to say risky things
        
        Safety of the crowd in a protest
        
        Adventure is when the big other sets the rules - - - what is erotic if nothing is prohibited?