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(Yuen's values, True differences, Communication problems, Unfounded…

- - - - Sanctity of life
- - - - Closeness = Boundaries overstepped
    - - Burdening others
        
        Relieving others from pain / "contamination" by me
  - - - "Unchangeable reality" vs Value (cognitive dissonance)
        
        e.g. marriage, potential baby
      - Tsan's intimacy experience (them against me)
        
        me as incapable of loving/being loved
  - - - Expression (or its lackthereof) out of fear rather than wants