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LILO 4! - Coggle Diagram

- - - - LOVE - seemingly irrational things we do in it!
      - Being in love is like showing a hunter your home! Love itself is a risk
      - Decentering - not just in coupledom but also in a political context - possibilities, newness - things happening - solidarity etc.
        
        Coming together for a shared love - not just "cause" but the kind of attachment is similar to love.
        
        Love??? What all do we feel for comrades? Connection, intimacy, passion, commitment (through thick and thin),
      - Sexuality / Desire
    - - LACK
        
        Tarrying with the negative (Zizek)
        
        "filling the lack" vs "staying in the gap" "creating from the gap with each other" - explore what this means! #EachOther paradigm
        
        Rupture, imagined oneness with the mother
      - Fantasy of Continuity
  - - - Limits of Rationality + Collective failure as development sector/ feminists - - - - life is not like that
    - - Psychic resistance to bewilderment and surprise
- - - - Enactment - consensual/ non consensual
        
        What does it mean to acknowledge - need for safety and need for adventure - in the sexual
        
        Feminism and sexual fantasies - is there something inherently wrong about violent fantasies? Or is it just about consent
      - Prohibition Eroticizes
    - - we operate in relation to the big other - defiance or compliance or....
        
        omnipotent observer - always present
        
        the eye for which we perform
        
        Is there really a big other???
        
        Relationship to structures of power???
        
        Privilege/ punishment
- - - - Push and pull between the two
        
        We resist both safety and adventure - and the combination of the two as well.
        
        We don't often find this mix in our personal lives - or MOMENTS of the combination of safety and adventure in personal life - - - then towards moments in collective life
    - - rules of bdsm
        
        anonymity allows to say risky things
        
        rules that allow exploration in classical music/ raag
        
        in a protest - safety of the crowd - to make a Naara
    - - We want certainty but how certain can we be?
        
        Adventure is only exciting when big other sets the rules - - - what is erotic if nothing is prohibited?
    - - Even in progressive politics - enjoyment of aggression towards each other
        
        Calling out privileges is important - and yet what else is going on there?