in a later case of A Child) (Injunctions Restraining Publication), the definition of 'upbringing': the bringing up, care for, treatment, education and instruction of the child throughout childhood by its parents or by those in loco parentis. Upbringing thus involves a process in which the parent, or other person in loco parentis, is the subject and of which the child is the object…. Section 1(1)(a) of the 1989 Act therefore applies only to those processes or actions of which the child is the object, and not to those in which the child is the subject