psychosexual stages of development:
ORAL, 0-2, mouth, weaning, suck thumb
ANAL, 2-3, bladder/bowels, toilet training, anal expulsive/retentive(messy)
PHALLIC, 3-6, genital, oedipus/electra, dependent of mother/father fig.
LATENCY, 6-12, dormant, conflicts previous stages, immaturity
GENITAL, 12+, sexual desires