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How to stay clam while being arguing - Coggle Diagram
How to stay clam while being arguing
Hubert Schleichert’s Proposal
Don’t say “you’re wrong.” Instead:
Help them see the consequences of their ideas
Show them what their beliefs really mean
Problem
You can’t argue normally with fanatics because they don’t share your values
Goal
Little by little, make them stop defending dangerous ideas without fighting
Philippe Breton’s Proposal
Active Listening
listen to yourself: What do you want from this talk?
Try to understand what they feel and think
listen to the other person without judging them
Giving Your Reasons (Argumentation)
Good reasons can help stop the violence and change someone’s mind
Don’t try to fight
calm down and listen to explain your own opinion
Distancing (Objectivation)
helps you stay calm and not get angry back
taking a step back to think before reacting
watch the situation from the outside