Within the family, the child is judged by particularistic
standards; that is, rules that apply only to that particular child. Similarly, in the family, the Childs status is ascribed ;that is,
fixed by birth. For example, an elder son and a younger daughter may be given different rights or duties because of differences of age or sex.
By contrast both school and society judge us all by the same
universalistic and impersonal standards.For example, in society,
the same laws apply to everyone.In school each pupil is judged
against the same standards (for example, they all sit the same exam and the pass mark is the same for everyone).
Likewise, in both school and wider society, a persons status is
largely achieved,not ascribed, for example at school we pass or
fail based on our own individual efforts.Parsons sees school as
preparing us to move from the family to wider society because school and society are both based on meritocratic principles In
a meritocracy, everyone is given an equal opportunity and individuals receive rewards through their own hard work, effort
and ability.