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Flow of the model, 1.Essentials, 2.Unblending and establishing a…

- - - - best way to create safety
  - - - what are their positive intent?
  - - - different parts that competes..
      - develop a relationship with the parts..
      - creates spaciousess, experience of choice, freedom, wellbeing
      - what part do you want to know first..?
      - all parts are welcome, no bad parts
  - - - so clients parts feel safe with the therapist
      - non directive
- - - - often curiosity and openness
- - - - cannot relax until the exiles are healed
      - they need understanding and appreciation of what of their function
- - - - therapist emphasize being "the hope merchant"
        
        help them know that we are here to help, and can help them heal so they dont need to protect what they are protecting, so the they can step back so the exile can appear.
      - listen to their concers over and over again
      - we dont threaten or make them give up their roles
      - until the protector feels safe enough to step back to allow connection to the exile
  - - - young wounded vulnerable parts
      - often in caves, tunnels, locked rooms
      - they set the tempo so they have the time to be understood
        
        they need alot of time
      - they are longing after being known
        
        they never got to say what it was like for them
        
        they need to tell their own story
        
        the story needs to be heard by the self
      - often at the "bottom" under the other parts
    - - establish relationship
    - - mistaken beliefs thoughts feelings
        
        big T small t traumas
      - steps of unburdening