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Mindsets in Love (Or Not), The Partner as Enemy, Fixed-mindset friend, Tom…

- - - - good luck to him and good luck to me
  - - - Can be developed, capable growth + change
        
        Aaron beck
        
        John Gottman
        
        Demands effort
  - - - The Flaws fly
        
        Brenda and Jack
        
        Hillary and Bill Clinton
        
        Ted and Karen
- - - - Cinderella example
      - Charlene and Max example
  - - - Assume wife/husband knows all rights and duties
      - Janet and Phil
      - No effort
  - - - needs confront situation, didnt
  - - - Penelope
- - - - Forgive partner therefore blame yourself, you bad person
        
        parent example
        
        needed blame + bitterness
  - - - Defensive
  - - - Susan and Boyfriend example
      - Cynthia
- - - - give up blame, move on
        
        Understand problem and try to fix it