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My identity - Coggle Diagram
My identity
PRESENT
top character strengths
- appreciation of beauty & excellence
I have a very high appreciation of the beauty of the world and also excellence in my own life. I always take photos of everything and love nice views of the world.
Although I may not always show it, I am very grateful for everything I have and for the people in my life.
I value teamwork because it allows for ideas and work to be even better than individual work. I also appreciate when there is true teamwork in group activities and assignments.
I often think about the world in a larger scheme of things than myself and my life and also the meaning of many different things.
Recently, I have become much more interested in many of my school subjects, career opportunities and also random things i'm curious about.
values
making a difference
In the future in my career, I really want to make a difference, mainly on a smaller level (helping individuals) but I would also love to try to make a bigger difference in the world for the better.
openness &simplicity
I really appreciate making things as simple as they can be like learning content in school and communication with people in my life. Openness is also something that comes along simplicity in good communication with people.
independence
I've become very independent as a person and I find that I never rely on other people for much. This isn't always a good thing because it also means I never tell anyone when I am struggle and need help.
gratitude
Although I may not always show it, I am very grateful for everything I have and for the people in my life.
passions
baking/cooking
I love baking and cooking food and it is something that it is often my go to thing to do when I am bored. It also helps relieve my stress or whatever might be going on in my life.
swimming
Swimming is the main activity and exercise I do. I have a love hate relationship with it although at the end of the day I do love swimming.
reading
I've been trying to read more and I thoroughly enjoy it. However, I find it hard to find enough time to read (i am a slow reader)
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communication
active listening
Me and people around me have noticed that I never really listen to what people say to me; I always have to ask them to repeat it. I also seem to have to ask questions more than once (sometimes less than 1 minute later of them answering). I think this may be because I am always some what 'living in my own world' which results in me never paying attention to anything in reality.
public speaking
I rarely speak to my teachers and peers who I'm not friends with in classes. I also never talk to anyone I havent known for years at my extracurricular activites. It's because i'm scared of people and I also don't really like talking. I often find myself thinking 'how can people be this comfortable talking to this many people they don't even know?'. I think I should put myself out there more often and 'fake it till I make it' in terms of confidence when speaking to strangers.
communicating my thoughts, ideas & feelings
I often struggle to communicate my thoughts and feelings with others in the classroom and personal settings. I think this is because I fear judgement from others and that I am wrong or stupid.
using feedback
I often do get feedback and advice from many different people things like school assignments and personal decisions. I find that I often listen to this advice (not always taking it in), and most of the time don't use it even if it is good advice. I'm not too sure why I do this but I think it would be beneficial for me to try using some of the feedback given to me.
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FUTURE
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near future
having a part time job
Having a part time job will be beneficial for me as I will gain work experience and good life skills. It will also mean I earn a bit of money :D
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spontaneous activities
I think doing more spontaneous things will be good for me as normally I structure everything out a lot and it can stress me out and give me anxiety. I think doing more random outings will help me chill out and relax more.
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developing communication
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don't keep quiet, especially when I need help
PAST
passions
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art
I loved painting all throughout my child starting from when I was about 2 and painting in my backyard.
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gymnastics
Gymnastics was always very fun but this hobby was very shortlived due to company circumstances. I don't know what my life would be if I didn't stop because I never would have quit myself.
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reading
I used to read a lot when I was younger, especially before sleeping. Dad used to read to me :D
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