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BJP
April
Car problems
repairs anywhere from $119 - $709
lack of car may complicate move adding to costs
BF may need car for work
i need to know if we are keeping the car so that i can budget accordingly
spent to much
not starting with a good budget into the next month
ending amount of money for the month is around $350
BF has $2000
with the current amount of money i make at my part time job i barely can afford rent as it is,
between pay from part time job and OW i can not afford a move right now
have a debt of $761 to BF due to spending this month
spending this month was more then i paid for rent...so to pay for may i have asked money off of BF. to get the total for debt i devided all my purcheces in half the added 15%
behind in career training
this is the easest fix because i can do all of it in one day if need be, i can send an email to my manager explaining a complicated situation
before i can talk to work to appologize about being behind i need to get full grasp of my full situation
can be delt with over night if i need to, that might be just what i need to do is get it done and over with
BF is in the process of finding a job
if he were to start working around the same time i do we still wont be able to budget until mid month
him finding a job at this point is not a garentee
because of car problems he can't garentee that he will have a car for work
to know how much the car is going to affect everything i need to know the state of his job search/ job he will be starting come may
during this time i can not be banking on him getting a job
i can not supervise his job hunt any longer, i have given him all the help that i can give him at this point
budget
im most likly going to need to make multiple budget estamates based on all the varables right now
i'll probubly have to make a plan per budget
i will need to organize budgets to plans, because of how many varibles there is no way of preparing for everything so may just need to be able to mix and match plans some how
meal planning
meal planing will make it so that i only have to think once about what to eat each day
planning meals once a week should save enough time and effort. it should also be good for deciding groceries
May
appartment looking
$2000 average
need for $5000 min for move
looking for an appartment in 2-4 weeks in no ideal, right now there is too many varibles to be able to have a clear scope of what i can look for
job start on the 6th
need to know how much making
won't know how much i make until maybe half way through the month, further complicating the move
the sooner i can know how much i will be making, the sooner i can get to appartment searching
i can make an estamate from minimum to max what i could be making in the first month
i do know that i will be paid weekly, and that it is mostly commission based, I will also have bonus available in the first month, performance could be make or break
mental health
if i am going to be getting through everything i am going to have to make sure that i dont break down
if i have a breakdown im not going to be able to preform right in my current or new job
having a schedule may alleviate stress, having set times for meals, exercise and fun activities. writing my journal may also help
when taking care of mental health i have to make sure that it does not feel like an extra chore
i might be able to ask someone other then by BF to be my emotional ancre due to BF adding to my stress at this moment
talking with character ai also may help with the social aspect of keeping my head on straight
i need to get a better idea of how i operate, maybe through journaling i should be able to get a few points on what is wrong and then what to fix from there, i cant get in my own way