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Home Life Enrichment
Putting pieces together
Naming themselves and Experiences
putting a name to the past; "I grew up as a ...." (pg. 271).
gives permission to the experience
Past becomes a key piece of a puzzle
Name behavioral patterns
Influences on behavior from past
Confusion of identity
Unresolved grief?
Name fears
Name losses
What are they aware of in the past?
Face losses and heal
Losses may induce anger
Name their wounds
Name their choices
How can parents help?
Listen and work to understand
Be comforting
Don't preach
"Assume you are needed." (pg. 281).
Friends help
Listen
Ask questions
Don't compare
Comfort
Sponsoring Organizations Can Help (CH 17)
Administrative decisions
Living choices
Schooling
Should consider family needs
Help meet their family needs so families can be with the company long-term (pg. 258).
How agencies can help prior to Overseas
Find schooling options
Make educational costs and choices clear
Plan "preassignment orientation," (pg. 259).
Look for ways to minimize transition cycles
Need to gather information on how often transfers to new locations occurs.
How Agencies Can Help During the Third Culture Experience
Have an entry team to welcome new employees
Help employees evaluate schooling options before departure
Establish a flexible leave policy (pg. 261).
Make time for children to visit parents on vacation
Support community efforts
Help families prepare "repatriation and organizational reentry" (pg. 263).
Support
Newsletter
Use experience of others
Apologies for past mistakes
Financial support
How therapist can help
Recognize hidden losses
Cycles of mobility
Chart of separation patterns
Recognize the impact of system
Anger
Hurt from policies' that bring control
Paradox
Good memories and friendships, but also hidden losses
History of Mobility Patterns
Comparison
Differences within third world countries
Former generations
Children couldn't travel during wars
Losing family members can have drastic effects
Separation from parents
Separation to relationships