Concept Map 2
- Focus on Positive aspects of other person
2.Call time-out with situation gets out of hand
- Listen carefully to other person
4.Speak clearly and to the point
- Don't expect the other person to know the problem without explaining it
- Don't humiliate other person in front of others
- Find solution to problem calmly and rationally instead of nagging or avoiding it
- Avoid giving ultimatums
- Be kind to the other person
- Don't hesitate to talk about the problems
- Use "I" rather than "you"
- Discuss one thing at a time
- Work as team to find a solution
- Remain calm, avoid yelling or tantrums
- Avoid attacking other person
- Solve conflict, make better, create peaceful and harmonious relationship
- Re-asses priorities, long term loving relationships are more important than endless bickering
- When correcting a child distracting, negotiating, or reasoning is healthier than criticizing and threatening
- Think about what you are going to say in advance
- Without putting it off find time when both parties are relaxed and ready to talk