"Through the unconscious splitting of the adult, the child will develop an unconscious relationship with a loving and idealized “other” who exists, in the child’s mind, in relation to a “self” that takes on the “badness” of the aggressor. " Santiago Delboy “The most important change, produced in the mind of the child by the anxiety-fear-ridden identification with the adult partner, is the introjection [internalization] of the guilt feelings of the adult”. Santiago Delboy "Narcissistic needs might include feeling powerful, needed, useful, alive, desirable, or loved." Santiago Delboy
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