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How far I'm ready to go? - Coggle Diagram
How far I'm ready to go?
Positive factors
You are attractive for me
Nice
Strong
Self sufficient
Dedicated
Has Asian values
Smart
Big bunch of your values are similar to mine
It seems to me I could grow in my own developmentaa
You are quite independent
You would be a big challenge for me
Concerns
Case 2.
I will have got a job in 4 months
We have many gaps,
which may cause problems
Language & Culture code
Literature
Movies
Music
Theater
Meaningful conversations
I do not meet some
of your requirements
I'm introvertive type,
not very open to social life and events,
have very few friends
I will not take all your warries.
Just because I'm going to be quite busy.
Car
Business
Home
I'm rather an individualist
and put the freedom very high
Doesn't mean I want to do crazy, impolite, offensive things or live in the "space of independency". I just need some certain privacy space and understand that there is a big list of topics where I need only my opinion to take decision,
I need a time and never sacrify of being with my family.
I never can accept be a slave or have slave(s) in any form (ref. to your ex and your dream to be a housewife). This is so hard against my core setup.
Money as usually is
a serious aspect
I will never take/use your money.
I know you heavily don't like this.
I'm heavily don't like and very uncomfortable
with any such idea as well.
I'm absolutely not in a good financial shape now, but even I get to the expected income level, I guess I will not be able to spend as much as needed to be on your level, Thus a discrepancy may appear of what you and me want/can do in terms of spending.
Get paid for helping you in business, property etc.
is also not the right way for me.
Are we together for business or love.
Impossible to mix.
Consider all this as business and get paid is not really interesting for me from professional challenge perspective.
At the same time I'm always ready to help you because of my attitude, not because of profit. Of course never say never, but basically this is my position.
Case 1.
I will not have got a job in 4 months
It's rather a catastrophic case.
Don't you wish me then.
Don't I will afford to approach you.