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Socializing/Networking - Coggle Diagram
Socializing/Networking
Being Cultured
Learn something that naturally interest you, but don't be like a super nerd. It can be rewarding and lead to intresting conversations. You need the to know how to present the information to others.
Manners
Don't spend too much time learning them. Instead, you should focus on only one thing, like how to order wine, but you make it sound sophisticated. Or, how to eat something, and you will order only that because you know how to order it, how to eat it
The reason that you don't really need to spends too much time on learning everything is that you can pay attention in that environment and learn from others. While you eat your food, analyze your surrounding, and copy others or learn how they behave.
Goal
You want to be received as intellectual, and knowing a lot of stuff, even if it is not the case. Remember, all human interactions are left with an impression. So, it is important that impression to be as good as possible for network wise and business wise.
Story telling/Describing
People are attracted by stories, and depending on how you tell them, you can be perceived as charismatic or not. Most of the people tell stories/describe things like they are in 3th grade, not like adults.
Structure
Begin - Setup
You want to grab immediately the attention
Fill up some details to let the listener follow you, but don't overload them
Middle - Conflict
The problem
End - Climax
You wrap the story
Face expression
Pauses
Tones and changing tones
Vocabulary
Once you become decent at structuring a story, you can start to work out on the rest of the parts. This one is the crucial and the hardest part. The rest of them you can copy the voice artist, or stand up comedians and do some research on how they express/deliver the jokes
Wardrobe
The clothes should fit
Bottam
Jeans
Almost anything
Upper Body
Everything will stay nice if you have a big V
Focus on muscles to become bigger
Friends
Care about them = Point out mistakes and learn them the proper way
Social circle
Switching social circles can influence you in a way or another. You become the averaged of the members - skill, communication etc.