Emotional maturity; puts the needs of others before own, delay gratification, compassion, defer judgment, withholds assumptions, self-control, positive communication, warmth in connecting with others, responds according to the needs or others, reliability, wisdom, draws upon a variety of resources, cognitive reframing, capacity to love, ability to trust, capacity to work, ability to change roles, ability to extend self into the future, self-acceptance, sense of meaning (Dodds, p.82)