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Friendships maintenance - Coggle Diagram
Friendships maintenance
Elizabeth Day's book "Friendaholic" and the problems of having too many friends
Feelings of inadequacy about friendships
Chaotic, bad at prioritizing
Transient city experience in Brussels
Easily formed and easily forgotten friendships
Thoughtless and careless behavior
Desire to be a bigger part of the few friends' lives
Living far away from friends
Four-plus hours and two trains away from best friend
Friends scattered across different locations
Impacted by housing costs, childcare, social care, and career constraints
Challenges of meeting up
Planning and expense
Southern Rail difficulties
Lack of spontaneity
Importance of regular side-by-side slumping and simple proximity
Endorphin system and friendship formation
Endorphin-firing activities: eating, drinking, laughing, telling stories
Hopeful for the endorphin flow from parallel sofa-based scrolling
Difficulty in showing up for friends when miles away
Realizations about friendship
Important moments happen in small, ordinary moments
Cumulative time is more important than "quality" time
Showing up is an act of love