The poem begins by focusing on the easy living that the woman has when only supporting ‘one’, herself. The woman’s life is presented through the semantics of a ‘dream’, Duffy using this to represent the tranquil life a person can lead when they are not supporting others. This could be painting a difference between men and women, women traditionally having to take on the responsibilities of caring for children while men are free to live their lives as normal.
The syntactical placement of ‘feed one, she’ places the action of nurturing before that of the self, ‘feed’ before ‘she’. In doing this, Duffy suggests that women are always ready to put caring for others before themselves, using the syntax of her poem to represent this attribute of women.
The first tasks come quickly in this first stanza, Duffy using asyndeton to connect the three: ‘washing, ironing, sewing’, task after task being completed by the woman. Yet, there is still room in this paragraph for other activities, the woman seen as eating, ‘a soup-filled spoon’ and relaxing. This state of blissful rest is something that is lost in the more hectic later stanzas, showing the woman’s descent into total caregiving.