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Ali Campbell 3 Secrets of SCM 28 May 2023 - Coggle Diagram
Ali Campbell
3 Secrets of SCM
28 May 2023
Secret #3
Loops
Paced
Set up for change to happen over time
Supports other changework
Nested
"holy grail" of looping
Metaphor delivered in 3 phases
1st creates curiousity
2nd creates change
3rd creates closure
Open (cliffhanger)
Start a story, but not finish it
Creates a state of curiousity
Ensures session runs on after it ends
Secret #1
SCM always seeks closure
Thought is subconsciously generated
Conscious mind doesn't have a window into the SCM
Use this to create closure in sessions and post-hypnotic
suggestions
Uncertainty is more unsettling than being wront
Secret #2
SCM is always communicating
Acknowledge them - you'll get more!
"that's right" "just let go" "thank you"
Creates rapport
Look for unconscious cues
deep sighs, coughs, shoulder shrugs,
head moves, eye moves, etc.
SCM will want to communicate more
Speak slowly to create space
Voice
Is our instrument
Create space, create peace, create change
Arthur Joseph "I
am
an extraordinary person and I do
extraordoinary
things."
Importance of breath, pacing, and pitch
conscious loving breath, slower pacing, lower pitch