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seeking external validation/ input, believing in yourself, needy innter…
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believing in yourself
due to classical conditining the value is given or taken away at child based on task done. so, it becomes a kind of commodity
you are always looking outsite , it is opposite of the chi flow, which is the problem.
what people think of you, is not your business
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even if they tell them you are valuable, you will go other person
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we are not talking about life skills or work skill, but intrinsic value as a indiviudal. eg footballers. we are talking about spirtual beings. Judgement on you vs your ability. ability is something you can build on. eg if a footballer retires and loses his abilite, does his value as a person reduces. value from outside is never enough.
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you are trying to souce the enegy from outside, when you are the source. No one is superior to you inferior to you. it may be skill wise. that too some body is good at somethign and somebody is good at something at something else. You need to plug it to yourself.
So, ask yourself who you are ?
what will you tell you child ,should he listen to other opinion.
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needy innter child
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if someone says you are wonderful, do you belive it. Did you not figure out yourself
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do you belive everrthing your mom, dad, brother , sister , collegue say ? Where is your accountablity ? that is the life lession
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The only love you need is youself, only validation you need is self validation