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sometimes letting go is the solution of problem family …
sometimes letting go is the solution of problem
family narrative
Introduction
explain problem(me (mom) and dad were always fighting and there relationship was not realy close, our lives were full of arguing, fighting and was hard.
the time and place(when i was 4 years old, in our old house)
introduce characters(me, dad,...)
I (mom) wanted to change the problen and tried anything to make my dad more kind and not that irritable
body
first part
explain how it happened (my dad asked my mom a question...)
the weather and everyone's feelings that day(it was foggy and we were eating curry...)
how i feel about the situation(scared, nervous, bad)
second part
mom tries to stop him and he sort of turns even more mad and dumped the whole pot of curry on my grandpa's head...)
when dad started to get crazy and throws the bowls at my mom, it scatered all over...
the little bits of glass
when my brothers start crying and no one knows what to do
third part
my grandpa called th police
my dad has anger issues and screams at the police
the police put him in handcuffs and took him away
our really close indonesian migrant worker that lives in our house helped clean upafter the mess and we were still all in shock
we heard that he didn't come home after the police let him go and he left to the other city without telling us
conclusion
we tried to contact him after but we figured that it was acually very peacefull even after he nearly destroyed the house
even though it was hard for mom to get on with life being a single mom, it was definetly better without him in our lives
we kept thinking how we can change him and wanting him to understand and help out the family, but sometimes people don't change and the only solution is to let go of the solution.
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