Don't ruin relationships by choosing a side, always be even and there for people. Always talk, find a person you can trust and tell them things, they will help. After every phone call, night and morning before you leave for school tell your parent you love them, it could be your last time seeing them. Always put your most, and greatest effort into something you love. When hard times become hard to deal with, find a way to avoid and stay out of it if you can and let the adults adult. Play with your kids or family, you may or may not find it fun but it is their dream to play with someone older and wiser. Always value time with someone, you don't know when the last time you can see them is. Join a class of a sport you like to keep you healthy. To keep a healthy relationship just be honest, honesty is key. Everyone is given life, it should be well spent because you don't know when it could be taken away. Life is short, make it sweet.