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SSelf - Coggle Diagram

- - - - To get out of small talk you need to add a good friendly comment
        
        You respond to a question and make a friendly comment (Which team are you cheering for? Cleveland, the Browns never win. OR Cleveland, because im from there)
        
        Conversation is like a tree, you can choose a branch to go with
        
        Friendly not stiff
  - - - Subjects to ask about
        
        For example
        
        Past
        
        Routines
        
        Future plans
        
        Opinions
        
        How it is going? (eg. project)
        
        How did you end up doing (something)?
  - - - Low risk
        
        I went for a hike with my dog (likes hiking and has a dog)
      - Higher risk
        
        Tell your feelings, thoughts, opinions, likings
        
        What about you? Do you like hiking? What's your thoughts about hiking?
        
        Avoid negative -> contructive
        
        Dont want others to think we are judging them
        
        Dont tell cake is too sweet
        
        Later can share and get support but this is for building friendships
  - - - Trauma
      - Might regret later
    - - Might find you secretive
  - - - How are you going to spend your holidays (NOT Are you ready for holidays? - Yeah)
      - What brought you from your hjometown to here
  - - - Has your bosses behaviour changed?
      - Has your puppy learnt potty training?