Family Conflicts

Between siblings

Between parents

Between parents and children

How to prevent conflicts

How to solve conflicts

Unequal treatment from parents

Difference in age

Competition

Property

Unfaithfulness

Lack of time for each other

Lack of awareness of one’s responsibility

Violence

Difference in personality

Incompatibility of relatives

Expectation

Friend choice

Behaviors of parents

Generation gap

Adapt oneself

Awareness of emotion

Accountability of behavior

Good communication skills

Avoidance of violence

Love and care

Understand rules

Make sure that both sides understand each other’s point of view

The accused must try to understand the problematic issue or conflict

Give the other person a chance to explain their reasoning

Be ready to compromise

Discuss only the present problem

Talk when one is ready to talk

Have a sincere goal to build a happy family

Express how one feels directly

Parents expected you to get an A on the exams, but you don't.

Parents hates when children always sit infront of the computer without know that they are doing.

Growing in different directions.

Parents and children has different opinion in many ways because of generation gap.

Husband always angry with something, wife hate when someone is mad, eventhough they're not mad at her

Husband, wife and kids will more than likely to want to give responsibility to others ex. chores.

Husband is too busy for work, so he doesn't have enough time to spend with his family.

Husband engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding.

Parents always give thing to their younger child.

Compete to get high scores in an exam.

Fight over food, toys and other things

Parents will argue with there kid about being in a relationship ex. when they can have girl / boyfriend

Older kids may think the younger is annoying.

One sibling gets a new clothes, but another sibling needs to wear the same clothes causing the siblings to hate another sibling.

Parents may use violence to solve the problem within the family causing many argueing between parents.

Both husband and wife may need to live separately.

Always take care their kid such as take them to hospital or always support their kids

Parents speaks maintaining Calm Under Pressure, makes their kid feel comfortable to speak with

Say sorry when anyone in family do mistake and try to solve that mistake.

Develop better habits and actions to avoid family problems.

Parents always talk to their child and give reason, not hit them when they not listen to them.

Children follow the rules that parents make to avoid problems.

Know what you are doing, such as speaking before thinking

Mother tells their husband and child what they feel when they got home late.

When there are a problem in family, talk to each other will be the best solution to solve.

Talk and try to solve the present problem by use the past problem as a study case

Father was angry at his child that he late for home, but still let their child explain why he's late

Parents know their children are sad, happy, excited. Know when to comfort them or leave them alone.

Kids have to know about the problem, know why this problem happen and try to avoid making this problem happen again.

Parent always forgive their children when they create problem

Every member in family know their duty and do it with their responstibilty

Summaries: There can be many conflicts caused in one family, but there are always ways to prevent and resolve conflicts. We can prevent conflicts by having good communication between family members, and live with love and care. Being aware of violence and being adaptive are also ways to prevent it. If the conflict has started, you can solve it by expressing your own feelings, and always talk when they are ready to talk. You also need to understand them and give them a chance to speak. Preventing and solving conflicts helps the family to live with happiness by having less arguments, or every argument can be solved without any problem that causes breaking up.