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Get the edge - Coggle Diagram

- - - - Single person marketing plan
        
        Go where it's most likely to meet the kind of person that live the way you live and value what you value (Proximity is power).
        
        Live by the list that discribe the kind of person you want.
        
        Love yourself
- - - - Change your state
        
        Clarify what you want
        
        Take action in the direction you want
    - - Prepare to deal with something or to avoid the consequences of something that's coming up.
    - - You have an expectation that is not being met and you have a feeling of loss.
        
        Communicate that you have a standard.
    - - An important rule that you have in your live has been violated by someone else or even by you.
        
        Change your perception, change your procedure.
    - - You need to change your approach to achieving your goals. (If you keep on doing the same thing you'll keep on getting the same result)
    - - You need to realize that an expectation you had or an outcome you are going after is not probably happen unless you change your expectation and make it more appropriate for the situation at hand.
    - - You violated one of your own standards and you have to make something immediatly to make sure you don't do it again in the futur.
    - - It says you need to do something to get better in this category right away.
        
        Am I really inadequate or do I have to change the way I'm seeing things.
        
        I need to prepare myself by doing something to get better.
    - - Assess what is absolutely important in this situation ?
        What's a necessity vs what's a desire?
        
        Write down all the things that are a necessity to accomplish.
        
        Put them in order of priority.
        
        Take the first on the list and do something about it.
    - - Define what kind of connection you need.
        Loneliness tells you that you want to be with people -> Find in what way you want to be with someone and take action immediatly to go in the direction we want.
- - - - Overcoming the pressure cooker
        
        The 7 steps of conscious change
        
        The 3 opponents
        
        The external opponent
        
        Intimate opponent (Closed one)
        
        Internal opponent (Beliefs)
        
        6 Take massive actions (Do something while you are in state. The more actions, the more commited you are)
        
        Burn the bridges so you have to move forward
        
        Massive action create momentum, Massive action is the cure all
        
        5 Set yourself up to win. (No extra time. ex: reading while riding the subway)
        
        4 Uncover limiting beliefs (What do I have to belief in order to feel this way? ex: In order to feel sad right now what do I have to belief?)
        
        3 Create a real plan (RPM Result, Purpose, Massive actions)
        
        2 Make a real decision (Result, Purpose, Massive actions)
        
        1 Get disturbed (Get honest with yourself)
        
        7 The seventh power (Most peoples live are the direct reflection of the expectation of their peer group).
        
        Give up the story, go for the results