"The thing about visits is, once you're out there with your family for that short period of time, you're kind of like free. You're in the moment. You catching up, talking, laughing, joking. I mean, it's a family reunion and you're not thinking about prison. It doesn't matter how long you've been inside, when you're with your family, your friends, your loved ones, all the prison grind and rigor is, it just melts away"