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Maddie Dehnert - Coggle Diagram
Maddie Dehnert
Tv/Movies
When I watched the movie "Hangover" it was a comedy that included a lot of sexual stuff and it kind of taught me sex was a funny thing or a joke. In the movie one of the men even gets married to a random woman (he has a wife) and it is considered funny.
Message: Don't take sex to seriously it should be fun or maybe even funny. It is not that important and is just suppose to be enjoyable, don't think about it to hard.
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Social media
On social media apps, for example instagram, all of the relationships are super sexual based. The boy only likes the girl if she shows skin and is pretty.
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Siblings
My sister's boyfriend is very nice and never have tried to pressure her. They are all ok with talking and invest in getting to know her.
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Music
In the majority of music for example "Blurred Lines" I listen to its about a man that's interested, asking or wanting sex from a woman. In this song the man is urging the woman to have sex with him and the woman doesn't even bat and eye.
Message: Woman don't really like sex thay just do it for their boyfriend. They don't enjoy it and is more of a chore for them.
Advertisements
When shopping or seeing advertisements from my favorite shop Free People for clothes the models are always skinny and beautiful. The clothes always fit them perfectly and the models are never plus size.
Message: You can only wear a certain clothing or look good in it if you are skinny or look a certain way.
Family
My Dad has never really talked about sex but my Mom brings it up once in a while. Her main point or view is to know my worth and not get pressured into anything. She says I should at least wait until after high school and be safe. She wants me to talk to her about it when it happens.
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Mr.M
In health Mr.M expresses that we shouldn't have sex in highschool and that we should wait but because he can't control us he just wants us to be safe. He encourages Condoms,birth control,etc.
Message: If you are going to break the rules and do it early, at least be safe.
Friends of same gender
My friends like or have crushes on boys and things like that but don't want to have a relationship or anything sexual until they are much older.
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