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carmelina
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Parents don't want me having a boyfriend. Being alone together with a guy or group of guys. Says that there's no reason for me to get one.
It's irrelevant to get into a relationship, and I could get pregnant young.
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My gut
I should have sex when I'm ready. When I feel comfortable with the right person. I am aware of the risks of what the outcomes could be. Relationships aren't just about sex. Sex is an intimate thing you and your partner do when your ready.
When I'm ready and comfortable with my partner, we could take it to the next step. We should both be comfortable with it. It shouldn't just be a hook-up, but more as a meaningful thing in the relationship.
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church/ religion
I don't go to church on a weekly basis, but I do go once in a while. My religion have a clear opinion on when you should have sex...Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
With this verse, although I see what they're saying, I don't necessarily agree with the concept of "No sex before marriage". I believe that you should have sex when you're absolutely ready.
music
Some of the music that I listen to does involve sex. It says that sex is a good thing to them. Basically saying that they enjoy having intercourse, but then those same songs involve how they love the other partner for them and not just their body.
What I learned from this is that sex can just be a plus in a relationship. Sex can be a good thing for me, but I should make sure that I'm not using the person for sex or just their body in general.
tv/movies
In the movies, or tv shows I watch that include sex or talk about it don't really think about the outcomes of sex. They talk about intercourse as if it's a normal thing in their life (which could be).
When I hear or see this, it makes me wonder if some people in our world actually think this way? To me I take deep thought into sex, so knowing that some people might just not care of what happens is actually concerning.
social media
Vinnie Hacker: very attractive, shows body and face in tiktoks, well built, well known on tiktok mostly for his looks.
If you show your body, a lot of people will like you and find interest in you. You'll get attention from other people.
Mr.M
Throughout the 3 years I've had Mr.M be my health teacher gave me lots of information on sex. He gave me so much information on what could happen. Rather it's getting HIV or paying for a baby's life. Mr.M has told me many things of what could happen to my body after I have intercourse, and during class (I don't know if I was paying attention or not) but I've never heard him say "Never have sex". Sure he has his own opinions on sex, but what I think from him is that if I ever have sex, I'll have to get ready for the risks.
From what Mr.M has informed me on about sex, I personally think that sex will happen for me and I'd have to be ready for what could happen. To always, always, always use protection, and to be careful of what could happen to me or my partner.
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