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Andrea Mejia - Coggle Diagram
Andrea Mejia
Mr. M
Mr. Has taught us about being safe and to be carefull. Teaching us about sex and what the consequences about it teaches us a lot. He taught us about STD's and AIds. And also showed us that even if we do decided to take a decision at a young age, he showed how to be safe.
Message: This changes my mind on how I can be carefull when I decided to take the choice. Warning me about Aids and pregnancy has a big influence on me. Teaching me that I should wait until I am fully aware of my actions.
Church
Since I was little I have been going to church. In my church it has not really talked about sex and what it leads too. But my faith lead me to believe sex is an adult decision you should take when you are married and with someone.
Message: This leads me to believe I need to wait until I am older and married to make this decision. It changed my mind about sex and how I shouldn't do it.
Tv/Movies
I watch shows with sex in them. For example Jane the Virgin. It teaches you on how saving yourself until marriage can be hard but also can be worth it. Making sure you found the right person is important. Jane waits until she marries the perfect guy. And even if it wasn't easy it still teaches you on the importance of it.
Message: As I watched the show It connected with me. I had been taught my church that waiting until marriage was important. I need to find the right person. And even if the path is difficult for me I can still wait.
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Social Media
Social media may show sexual content and opinions on sex.
It can show videos of how to be safe and if you should or should not do it.
Meaning: This can help me understand sex better and the different experiences on it. On how to be safe na dhow to know to say no if we don't want to.
Social Media
Family
My family hasn't really had any impact on sex. We don't talk about it. My cousin was 18 when she got pregnant. And I;ve seen how it changed her life. Having a kid to take care of has made her let go of many choices but I know she wouldn't change having her baby for the world.
The meaning: This helps me understand the consequences of having sex at a young age. Even if it worked out for my cousin and I would have family support I would let go of many things. Most likely not go to college and achieve my dream career.
Music
As I was growing up I don't remember listening to songs that contained sexual context. Now that I'm older I still don't listen to them. Even if they show up on my playlist and it's a catchy song I don't really take the message it gives. On the other hand there are some songs that are disturbing. Men talking about doing whatever they want to do to women disgust me. And also women talking about it is gross.
The message I take from it is on how I should be careful with who I'm with and what their intentions are. Like a song talking about hurting women helps me understand how some guy[s mindset is and how to stay away from them and uncomfortable situations.
My gut feeling
My gut feeling helped me a lot. Even tho I am not planning on having sex in my teenage years my gut has always helped me stay safe. Going out with friends late when we are around strangers I am always making sure to listen to myself and if I don't feel comfortable I get out of there right away.
Even though that doesn't affect how I view sex it helps me stay safe and listen to myself when I decided to take that choice. Knowing I can listen to myself and know what I want and don't want is very useful.
The only commercial I remember seeing that talks about sex is a Trojan commercial. It shows how a condom can keep you safe during sex and how it can protect you.
The meaning: I need to be safe and I need to learn about things that can keep me protected from pregnancy and/or Aids.