Theories of the Family

Feminism

Functionalism

Personal Life Perspective
A bottoms-up micro interactionist perspective; believes that traditional studies into 'family life' (nuclear family) are outdated and need to be replaced by the study of 'personal life'- looking at the meanings people give to networks and relationships with others and how they define family (ie does not have to be biological)

Marxism

Murdock (1949)

Wilmott & Young (1973)

Evaluation


Feminists argues most universal family unit is mother and child rather than the nuclear family as Murdock suggests


Marxists argue Murdock ignores the influence of capitalism- the family indoctrinates the next generation of workers through primary socialisation
Marxists argue primary socialisation does infact promote the stagnation of society by learning parents' norms and values


Outdated- there has been changes in gender roles and increase family diversity since 1949

Economic function = man works performs instrumental role providing basic needs while woman performs expressive role doing unpaid labour at home

Sexual function = men and women have a controlled sexual relation within marriage which promotes heterosexuality as a norm

Educational function (primary socialisation) = children are socialised into society's norms and values (eg gender role by modelling same-sex parent)

Reproductive function = gender socialisation promotes socially acceptable behaviours to prepare children for reproduction in a stable, heterosexual relationship to prevent social stagnation

Parsons (1955)

Two Irreducible Functions of the Family

stabilisation of adult personalities (warm bath theory) = family provides emotional security for adults as they can address worries at home so they can function normally in public; adults can gain a sense of fulfilment by indulging in their child-like tendencies and interacting with their children

primary socialisation of children = learning values consensus; parents reinforce socially desirable behaviour while sanctioning undesirable behaviour so children can 'fit in' to wider society


Functional Fit Theory

socially mobile family = the nuclear family can move up the class system due to the meritocratic nature of society and status is not ascribed (fixed)

geographically mobile family = the nuclear family can move to find employment more easily than the extended family; jobs appear and disappear in different places which requires the workforce to move to the jobs

sex role theory is when family roles are divided into instrumental and expressive roles based on biological characteristics and gendered socialisation

warm bath theory is when male breadwinner can ‘relax into’ his family like a ‘warm bath’ to remove work-related stress; this is functional for economic efficiency as it means he can meet the demands of the workplace

instrumental role performed by male breadwinner who provides economic support through paid work and maintains discipline in the household due to his physicality (eg stronger build, aggression)

expressive role performed by female homemaker who provides emotional support due to her nurturing nature (eg showing empathy)

Evaluation


Feminists argue Parsons' theory has a patriarchal nature and is based on gendered stereotypes


Nuclear Family did not evolve due to industrialisation- Laslett studied Parish records and found evidence of a pre-industrial nuclear family


Nuclear family was not as isolated as Parsons suggested- Wilmott & Young found evidence of extended kindship networks in 1950s industrial London


Ethnocentric view- theory based on study of American nuclear family so results cannot be generalised


Theoretical view- not backed up by empirical evidence

Stage one: the preindustrial family- extended family live and work together as a unit of production and there is no separation between work and home life

Stage two: the early industrial family- work and home life become separated when families move into cities, men go to work and women perform domestic role at home

Stage four: the asymmetrical family (prediction for the future of families):- high social class couples spend more time apart (eg leisure time is separated), this change diffuses down social strata and becomes norm

Stage three: the symmetrical family- modern nuclear family is a unit of consumption, isolated from kindship networks, and there are joint conjugal roles therefore less gender segregation, children become economic liability

Evaluation


Feminists argue the symmetrical family is a myth and presented in an idealistic way- there has been little progress towards gender equality in couples and the dark side of the family is ignored (eg domestic abuse and coercive control)


Extended kinship networks have not disappeared- Wilmott (1988) found these contacts remained important for both WC and MC families (eg seeing relatives weekly, phoning relatives, care and support of elderly family members)


Value judgement- theory suggests family has 'improved' and is now more valuable, however extended pre-industrial style families in rural areas function just as well as self-sufficient structures


Liberal Feminism take a more positive view on the family; they believe family-life for women has improved as a result of gradual and incremental legal and social changes which have indirect and direct impacts on family life

Radical Feminism believe family and marriage are the key institutions in patriarchal society as they allow men to retain power by forcing women into housewife and mother roles so they cannot become equal

Marxist Feminism believes women are exploited within the family and that capitalism is the underlying cause; therefore society's economic structure must change to achieve gender equality, rather than just a change in family structure

Difference Feminism acknowledge that there is not one universal experience of the family and that this can differ in terms on race, class, and sexual orientation

Legal changes

Social changes

Solutions to female exploitation abolish patriarchal system by abolishing the nuclear family; this is achieved through gender separatism

Greer (2000) all-female or 'matrilocal' households make women focal point of family and removes male dominance

Political Lesbianism heterosexual relationships are innately oppressive as they involve 'sleeping with the enemy' so same-sex relationships are the only way to remove male dominance

Evaluation


Liberal Feminist Sommerville (2000) argues Radical Feminists ignore the improved position of women in society through legal and social changes


Political Lesbianism suggests sexuality is a choice which invalidates the lesbian experience by turning their identity into a political statement

Equal Pay Act (1963), Sex Discrimination Act (1975), Equality Act (2010) encourage women's employment

Abortion Act (1967) and Family Planning Act (1967) gives women control over their reproductive rights

Divorce Reform Act (1969) and exclusion of the Marital Rape Clause (1992) improves women's marital rights

increased divorce rate

trend of women having children later

more women cohabiting- normalisation of sex outside marriage

normalisation of abortion

Evaluation


Women still do a disproportionate amount of domestic work (eg hidden emotional labour, still do more domestic labour than husbands)


Ethnocentric view- often described as 'white feminist' because it does not take an intersectional approach to women's issues and achieving gender equality

Eli Zaretsky

Mothers socialise children into capitalist ideologies

Wives provide an escape from the exploitative workplace

Women are a 'reserve army' of cheap labour

Ansley (1972) describes women as 'takers of shit' who absorb male anger caused by alienation and exploitation in the workplace

Evaluation


Radical Feminists argue that female oppression is based on patriarchal structure of society rather than the capitalist economic system


Liberal Feminists argue there has been significant change within the current capitalist system (eg 1963 Equal Pay Act )

Evaluation


Other Feminists argue that Difference Feminism ignores the fact that women do have many shared experiences (eg fear of domestic violence, lower pay)

The family serves capitalism by performing ideological functions

The family is a unit of consumption because it creates a market for the sale of consumer goods

The family serves capitalism by allowing for the inheritance of property

Carol Smart

Vanessa May

Evaluation


Feminists argue the patriarchy is more oppressive than capitalism


Functionalists argue Marxists do not consider the positive functions of the family (eg socialisation and economic security)


Structural theories are relatively deterministic as they assume individuals are simply 'passive puppets' who can be easily manipulated


Too much emphasis on the nuclear family and assumes it is the dominant family type

Eli Zaretsky (1976)

Engels

Evaluation


Sommerville (2000) argues Zaretsky ignores the 'dark side of the family' (eg domestic violence, child neglect, coercive control)


Zaretsky exaggerates separatism- WC women did have jobs during early capitalism to support their family financially

modern capitalist society creates the illusion that work and family life are separate

therefore work separatism and abolition of the family are vital for socialism

Hochschild builds on ideas of Marx and argues that family life has become part of consumer capitalism- emotional life is now a commodity

this mean we are alienated from our own emotions and our connections to others

eg) care workers are 'paid to love' - migrant nannies and the global transfer for women's emotional labour


eg) surrogate mothers 'rent out their womb' emotionally detach from the baby and change their lifestyle for efficiency- shows the control of capitalism over bodies

eg) child-targeted advertising by the media who then use 'pester power' to persuade children to purchase toys


eg) pressure to 'keep up with the Joneses' and buy latest products


eg) peer bullying for not having the latest clothing or gadgets puts pressure on parents to buy latest products for children

the family is an escape from the harsh workplace, however ''it cannot meet the pressures of being the only refuge in a brutal society''

Socialising children into idea that hierarchy and inequality are inevitable


(eg parental authority teaches children than there always has to be someone in charge and prepares them to take orders from employers)

Evaluation


Feminists argue Engels ignores restrictions placed on women (eg housework and childcare) and concentrates too much on property ownership - heterosexual monogamous relationships as a way of controlling women (men could cheat but women must stay faithful to ensure paternity)


However, Gough (2012) praises Engels for correctly identifying the direction of development of family life


Engels cannot prove the existence of primitive communism and promiscuous hordes

Engels believed in what Marx calls primitive communism- earliest classless society with no private property

in primitive communism institutions like family and marriage did not exist and instead we lived in promiscuous hordes- no restrictions on sexual relationships

as the forces of production developed, private property property and the nuclear family emerged

monogamy became essential for the inheritance of private property as men must be certain of the paternity of their child to pass on property to them

Argues that increased family diversity, specifically in lone-parent families, means that functions of the family are fulfilled by those outside of biological relations - people construct their own networks of support

eg lone-parent female-headed families outsource childcare function to friends/ neighbours and the emotional support function (stabilisation of adult personalities, which relied on a married couple/ husband) to friends/ other lone mothers

  • Traditional study of family is ethnocentric (white MC family)


  • Looks at how people create meaningful relationships and construct their own family outside of blood relations (eg support network of friends) - aspects of personal life ignores by traditional studies


  • we have a degree of agency (free will) in forming relationships however this is constrained by the family (different to individualisation thesis) - MC ideal


  • this is called the ''connectedness thesis''

Types of family relationships


  • Fictive kin - close friends who are treated as family (eg 'auntie' in black families)


  • Chosen families - support networks of friends and ex-partners in LGBTQ+ families


  • Dead relatives - 'live on in memory'


  • Pets - considered part of family, especially if grown up with children etc

5 core concepts of personal life - things that influence how strong a connection is


1. memory = shared emotional memories - a bond is likely to be formed if these are meaningful events
(eg births, deaths, trauma, joy, birthdays)


2. biography = 'life history' or shared experiences - stronger relationships are formed with those who have the same experiences as you (particularly true for adolescents who strive for independence from blood relations)
(eg travelling together, going to same school/ uni, working at same place)


3. embeddedness = 'interconnected web' or your social circle - who you spend most time with determines how strong your relationship is
(eg more time spent with friends > siblings who are away at uni and vice versa)

4. imaginary = how each individual perceives that relationship
(eg how much support can they give me? how important is this relationship?)


5. relationality = how much you relate to someone - you may relate more strongly to those outside blood relations who share your norms and values (age can determine views so old family members may have outdated views)
(eg LGBTQ+ who are rejected by traditional family, domestic abuse survivors who relate to other networks of survivors more than their partner)

Criticisms


  • Not very effective for informing family policy - if we don't have an objective shared idea about what 'family' is then how do we effectively implement policy? eg 1967 Family Planning Act, 1969 Divorce Reform Act - based on nuclear heterosexual family, rather than on friends or fictive kin
    *COUNTER: do we need family policy for chosen families and relationships with pets etc*


  • Giddens & Beck - individualisation thesis - we have complete free will and agency - focus on the individual rather than the personal (individual needs and wants - eg romantic love - rather than connections with others)


  • Ignores important functions still performed by blood relations - eg if you live with your friends and consider them family, but when you want to go to uni they won't financially support you your parents will - Functionalist Murdock and functions of family

Stratified diffusion