3.30.22
Parent styles
Dictator
Educator
Be home by 10
Why
Because you have school
More Crimes happen after 10 PM
People
When you communicate boundaries communicate like God did.
Values
Principles
Practices
Tell them what the consequences will be when they break the rules. Then you don't have to make them up as you go.
Set a clear boundary and describe the consequence
If someone crosses the boundarie say "I'm sorry you crossed my boundaries that is your problem not mine.
Monipulation in counselling
Telling them what you think is right
Then you own the consequence as well.
General
Pastor's who are narcissistic and have over functioning
Church Management
You as a pastor have the right to give you opinion and to ask anyone any question.
When the board makes a decision whatever they decide I as the pastor we will be the first one to implement whatever the board decides.
Go into a board meeting with you and elders on the same page.
Addiction
takes 2-5 years for recovery
Relaps will be less and less frequint.
Needs to be an identifcation of trigger points
Tools Ect.
Crutches need to be replaced by something else.