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Emotional and Cognitive Socialization Outcomes - Coggle Diagram
Emotional and Cognitive Socialization Outcomes
Feel good about failure
Excellence comes from effort
Protecting kids from failure, they say, is the worst sort of false kindness
Kids need honest feedback
Self-esteem can actually be dangerous
People who have this inflated, grandiose, view of themselves, when other people criticize them, they are likely to lash out and become angry and aggressive.
Violence may be the result of artificially high self-esteem.
Psychology professors Brad Bushman and Roy Bowmeister:people who thought they were superior or have inflated views of themselves were more aggressive
Primarily emotional and cognitive
Motives
Attributes
Attitudes
Self-esteem
Values
Primarily social and behavioral
Morals
Gender role
Self-regulation
What affects Values?
By Personal Perceptions: Age, experience, cognitive development, and moral reasoning affect values.
By Societal Perceptions: eg. Normality - Sophie Freud 1999, it is based on societal norms at a given time, as well as who is perceived deviating from those norms. US - common in psychological help, social services, medical care for those deviating.
What is important to you in life? RESPECT
These outcomes are the result of child, family, school, peer, and community interaction (mesosystem)
Basic Societal Value:
Equal justice for all. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” —The Golden Rule
Compassion for those in need. “With malice toward none, with charity for all.” —Abraham Lincoln
Equality of opportunity. “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”—Thomas Jefferson
Basic Personal Value:
Truth. - "The truth shall make you free." - John
Love. "To love and be loved." - Edgar Allan Poe
Knowledge. "Knowledge is power." - Meditationes Sacrae, Francis Bacon
Mystery of happiness: There are many misconceptions about happiness
Happiness can come as a result of having control over some of our environment
Pushing yourselves in the pursuit of happiness is an added stressor to life
We have to understand that we come into the world in a certain way and to believe, to understand that that is who we are and to respect that is who we are.
Control at any age is an important aspect of feeling good.
Another component of happiness is optimism. When problems happen, are you confident you can make things work out better?
A fundamental belief that things, in the end, were gonna to be okay.
Belief in God does correlate with happiness.
Religious people feel that happiness is a sense of commitment to something bigger than just themselves.
what may be the biggest predictor of happiness is whether you have close relationships
Close, supportive, connected relationships make for happiness
Humor can help you relieve tension, solve problems creatively, communicate with folks, and to deal with the inevitable bumps in the road up ahead.
“Affluenza: the unhappy condition of overload, debt, anxiety and waste resulting, from the dogged pursuit of more.”
Living simply and sharing a future for generations to come. It need not be a future of deprivation.