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3.9.22 Counselling - Coggle Diagram
3.9.22 Counselling
Warning Signs Crossing Boundaries Signs
Publicity
What would others think
Professor eating out with none class
Physical Arousal
Sexual Fantasies After the fact
Catching yourself from sexual jestures
Lingering hand shake
be consistant treat all the same
uncalled for
Perishoner showing to much affection
You or the wanting to shift conversation to a sexual subject
Wanting to continue councelling beyond pastors scope.
Find yourself anticipating the counseling session with that person
Are mechanisms of accountability being ignored
Emotional boundaries
Must keep distance
Cannot be a sponge to absorbe everyone elses pain
Taking things personally
When attendance in church is low
they take on many of the stresses many of the cases that they have.
Blurr between professional ministry and personal life
Pastor who dates and marries unhealthy members
Because we don't want to say not we put ourselves in compromising situations
Very manipulative
get them an uber
Taking people in
Couple murdered by man who they took in.
Dating
Don't date someone because you want to help them.
That will be counter productive to their ministry
COunselling room
Don't allow for total privac
Doors with windows
videos with no sound
Set boundaries in advance
Mine?
Wife
Not just mine
Daughter of God
Son
Son of God
Daughter
Daughter of God
Hyper vigilance
Always being super worried about room and door open setting ect.
Can actually be counter productive
You just need to have vigilance and use good common sense
Notes
Being to nice can be seen as hitting on people
Stop atleast at 4-6 sessions