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Relationships, profit and loss- all social behavour is a series of…
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profit and loss- all social behavour is a series of exchanges through a cost-benefit analysis, rewards minus costs equal the outcome for the relationship
comparison level- a standard against which all our relationships are judged, our comparison level is a product of our experinaces in other relations or general views
someone who has had bad relationships previosly may be happy in a relativly poor relationships in contrast someone who had previsoly rewarding relationships may have high expectations
comparison level for alternatives
an indivual will be commited to their currant relationship when the overall benefits and costs are percived as being greater than a possible alternative relationship
if an alternative is more rewrading the less the indivual will depenmad on the urrant realtionships
claims poeple are most comfortable when what they get out of a relationship is rougly equal to what they put in
realtionships that lack equity are assocaited with dissatisfaction, like if people feel over benefitted they experinace guilt pity and shame but if someone feel under benefitted they experinace anger saddnes. greater the inequity the greater the dissatisfaction
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quality of alterntives this is an indivuals assessment wether theiur needs may be better fufilled by somebody else,
investiment size- this is the measure of resources that are attached to the relationship such as finace money or time these sorts of investiments create a strong foundation for a stable relationship this makes people want to persue a relationship
commitment level, is if the satifaction is high and quality of alternatives low and have high investments the higher the commitment level will be due to increased dependace
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intrapsychic phase -
social withdraw, brooding on partners faults and re-evaluate costs and alternatives
justfied in withdrawing
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dyadic phase-
talking to partner about realtionship issues ressassment of goals, pssiblities and commitments
i mean it
social phase -
going public, seeking support from third parties, alliances and denigation of partner
its now inevitable
grave dressing phase -
tidying up memories, prepare stories and saving face
time to get a new life
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self disclosure, people are more confident to disclosing intimate or sensitive info in private
however people are more selctive over the content revealing info less private when sharing with a wider audience, this can compensate for the lack of control over the target audience
why do people self disclosure more on the internet
the anonymity of internet makes popel share their inner thoughts and feelings which less fear of disproval
futhermore it is likely never see the person you are disclosing as a stranger does not have acess to an indivual social circle and confidentaly is less of an issue
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in face to face relations factors such as physical appearance and mannerism determin who we approach, in online relationships their is a absence of these barriers
the absence of gating and its consequences
without gates indivduals can project a self that is more socially desirable.