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Agnes- I feel not worth it. - Coggle Diagram

- - - - I feel not important.
        
        And I feel this way because...
        
        I feel people don't listen to me..
        
        And I feel this way because...
        
        My mother couldn't understand me as a baby and would pass me off to my grandmother. She literally said, "I don't understand you, so go be with grandma."
        
        You mentioned your brother was a new born during this time, right? And your mother was young and doing her best with a toddler and new born. Could it be possible, your mother was overwhelmed, maybe even experiencing post-partem depression, or other stresses she wasn't equipped to deal with, and didn't necessarily have the tools to cope as a young mother, and perhaps said things not meaning to hurt you, and she simply did the best she could for her young child? And perhaps she knew your grandmother would give you exactly what you needed, the attention you needed, and this was the reason she said and did what she did?
        
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        I still feel not important because...
        
        It feels like I'm always doing the wrong thing.
        
        And I feel this way because...
        
        My mom always said I was bad.
        
        Though I'm sure your mother did the best she could, do you think she is the authority on who is bad and who is good?
        
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