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Purpose - Coggle Diagram
Purpose
Principles
Allocate your resources
(Time, Energy, Talent)
Rewarding relationship with my wife,
raise great kids,
contribute to my community,
succeed in my career,
Create a Culture
Power tools (coercion, threats, punishment)
can work up to pre-teen
Children build self-esteem by doing things that
are hard and learning what works.
Avoid the
“Marginal Costs” Mistake
The marginal cost of doing something wrong
“just this once” always seems alluringly low.
It’s easier to hold to your principles 100% of the time
than it is to hold to them 98% of the time.
Remember the
Importance of Humility
When we see people acting in an abusive, arrogant, or
demeaning manner toward others, their behavior almost always is a symptom of their lack of self-esteem. They need to put someone else down to feel good about themselves.
Have high level of self-esteem.
Humility was defined not by self-deprecating behavior
but by the esteem with which you regard others
Choose the Right Yardstick
Don’t worry about the level of individual prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped become better people.
Listen Empathetically => Be on the side of receivers (Team members, Mgmt, Kids, Wife, Parents)
Q2) Personal Life
Family Culture
Kids
Self-esteem and Confidence to solve tough problem.
Behave respectfully, obey elders, do the right things
Future culture is always different from the current
Take an Arduous challenge
Follow your Heart
Pursuit of Achievement
Irony is:
Our careers provide
the most tangible, immediate achievement
Investments in our family
don't payoff for a very long time.
Q1) Professional life
The powerful motivator in our lives isn’t money;
it’s the opportunity to learn,
grow in responsibilities,
contribute to others, and
be recognized for achievements.
Q3) Live a life of Integrity
(stay out of jail)
Marginal cost mistake
When people ask
what I think they should do,
I rarely answer their question directly
Offer them an Analogy and
let they figure out themselves
Measure of your life
How well you helped
other people be better people
Me, Wife, Kids, Parents, Relatives, Friends,
Colleagues, Neighbors, Community,
Anyone who comes in your contact
Metrics - Think about the metric by which your life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success.
Take on an arduous challenge
Can you explain why your life is the way it is today because of these theories?
Can you predict what will happen in your life if you continue to do what you have been doing?