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Father
Medical
not seeing a doctor regularly for at least a decade
didn't know any of your medical issues for certain until I took you to appointments recently
needs a colonoscopy
needs regular prostrate exams
hernia
parkinson's
needs to see Neurologist on regular basis
early onset dementia?
repetition
frustrated and comes across as mean at times
struggling with finances
makes commitment but doesn't follow through
difficulty remembering
forgot shirts this visit
difficulty finding words
losing track of time/dates
extended stay by 1 day & thought it was a week
can't remember anyone's birthday except your own
can't remember my birthday even though it's only 4 days past Jake's
insomnia
incontinence
depression
tends to blame companies for making a mistake
when you appear to forget to make payments
insurance rider
auto insurance
denial
cataracts
will need 3-6 months of eye drops!
cancer?
You haven't had your Medicare
card since you signed up 7 years ago
I had to get one for you
Donna requested wellness check
Questions for Dad
Do you acknowledge you can't organize the selling of your property & the move to Phoenix by yourself?
2) Come to AZ to get your operations done
Allow me to settle your affairs in NY
You don't return to NY except to visit with friends
1) Come to AZ to get your operations done
continue to visit as long as you are able
you return to NY as is
we continue in current loop
see "Possible futures for Dad"
health deteriorating
move not progressing
Do you want to live with us in Phoenix?
What's stopping you from coming back
to AZ with me now to stay permanently?
What do you need to discuss face to face?
Have you scheduled your cataract surgery?
Have you scheduled a Neurologist appointment?
Finance
Payments not being made
auto insurance
cable bill
electric bill
checks not being cashed?
Pension
9 months without auto pay being set up for your pension
lost some sort of medical insurance rider due to not paying on time
mobility
falling
no driver's license
handed plates over to DMV
can't see well enough to safely drive
Possible futures for Dad
You die before your diseases progress much further
Spend Christmas with us as long as you can travel
You potentially get scammed out of your possessions as your mind continues to deteriorate
Spend Christmas with us as long as you can travel
You hurt yourself / doctor petitions for you to have a guardian
State of NY puts you into Long Term Medical Facility
State of NY reaches out to Jason or me to become guardians
Dealing with court system
Attorney fees
fighting with Jason
you end up in a Nursing Home in NY
Court/NY is involved in all future decisions
We have limited ability to ever visit you
You settle your affairs now & live with us in AZ
Spend your remaining time with loved ones
have more say in your future
Meet some of your friends?
Eddy Blaine truck driver--Albany
Mr Coffee/Jim?
lives on Platts Street with Mother
near fire station
Ricky scrap yard
Selling Properties
3 years and nothing has been sold
fighting with City of Plattsburg over 17 S Peru St
pool still not filled in
scrap still not removed