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Rasing Girls, what can you do - Coggle Diagram
Rasing Girls
Ch 4: Gettting Along with Others(5-10 Yrs)
Get involved when nothing works
5-10 yrs: loyal to family; > 10 yrs: problems with family
What are the skills of Friendship: company, take turn and share, empathize, regulate aggression, apologize, read emotions, when to and when not to trust someone.
How Friendship Grows
game of make-believe
Playing together involves a whole new set of skills -> negotiate a shared world.
Playing is where we learn to relate to one another.
Be a friendship role model
Making Friends
Can be source of pain.
Like the oxygen they breathe
The Language of Feelings
Fear and listening to your intuition
Anger is about being strong-> I don't like that. Leave me alone.
Sad: yes, but you don't need to bear it on your own.
joy
Tend and Befriend; What do I want for myself?
What Happens In Puberty?
The same age Ghetto-> belonging to a church, sport teams, community projects...
Talk about "what makes a good friend"
Sports
Ch 5 Finding Her Soul (10-14 Yrs): Who am I? What do I want? What is my life really about?
Preparation Begins in Earnest
Spark: happier, a different group of friends, a place to make and do
If your girls is a lesbian
All that you have is your soul
Learning from Anne Frank
What works for developing soul? people, book, time in nature
Keep calm and keep on loving. Safety is the bottom line.
Early puberty, chemicals and your girl
Ch 6 Preparing for Adulthood(14-18 Yrs)
What makes you an adult?-has her own goals and purpose.
Initiation into womanhood
rites of passage-> what kind of woman do you want to be?
Work and responsibility
Learn how to care for the big picture-the big life, not just our own small life.
what can you do