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Mastering Creator Language - Coggle Diagram
Mastering Creator Language
Language of Responsibility
Victims expend all their all their energy in
judging themselves or others
Creators use their energy to solve the problem
The Inner Critic
Positive intention
Content to trade sucess in the future for comfort in the
present
By criticizing ourselves, we hope to eliminate our flaws and win the approval of others
We make ourselves miserable in the effort
Where
Our younger self recorded their judgments and, years later, our Inner Critic replays them over and over. That judgment can affect the choices you make every day
What
Lower our value as a human being
Blames us for whatever goes wrong in our life
Blames us for whatever goes wrong in our life
Find fault with anything about us
The Inner Guide
Tell us the impartial truth, allowing us to be more fully aware of the world around us, other people, and especially ourselves
Knows that judgment doesn't improve difficult
situations
Objectively observes each situation and asks
The Inner Defender
Positive intention
Protect us from discomfort and anxiety
Blaming our problems on forces that seem
beyond our control
Where
Sounds suspiciously like our own voice when
we were scared and defensive little kids
Distract ourselves from acting on what needs to be done to get back on course. To feel better, we sabotage creating a better future
What
Full of blaming, complaining, acusing, judging,
criticizing, and condemning others
Instead of judging ourselves, it's judges others
Can find smt to grumble about in virtually any
situation