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Mastering creator Language - Coggle Diagram
Mastering creator Language
The inner critic
the internal voice that just us as inadequate: "I can't do math.I never say right thing.".......
This judgmental inner voice can find fault with anything about us
appearance
intellect
performance
personality
Self-judgments have a positive intention
eliminate flaws
win the approval of others
feeling more worthy
escape problem
Quite content to trade success in the future for comfort in the present
The inner defender
Judges others:" My roommate made me late to class"
find something to grumble about in virtually any situation
Their thoughts and conversations are full of blaming, complaining, accusing, judging, criticizing, condemning others
have a positive intension
protect us from discomfort and anxiety
by blaming our problems on forces such as bad luck, lak of money, not enough time
is the flip side of the Inner Critic
The inner guide
This is the wise inner voice that seeks to make the best of any situation
knows that judgment doesn't improve difficult situations
tell us the impartial truth, allow us to more fully aware of the world around us and especially ourselves
The language of responsibiity
Translating Victim statements into the responsible language of Creator moves you from stagnant judgments to dynamic actions
2 qualities that characterize Creator language
accept responsibility for their stuation
plan and take actions to improve their situation
Example
Victims complain:"This course is a stupid requirement."
Victims blame:"The test are ridiculous. The professor gave me an F on the first one.""
Creators seek help from Those More Skilled:"I need help in this course, so I'm going to ask John if he'll help me study for the exams."
Creators think Positively and Look for a Better Choice:"I'll find a way. There's always something I can do. Ican...I choose to....I'll....."