His idea of dignity ultimately caused Stevens to turn any personal relationships he had into professional ones. For example, him and his father barely had a relationship. At work, they would have minimal interactions, and when he passed away, Stevens would not leave his station to give his final goodbyes to his father. At the end of the story, Stevens starts to question his idea of "dignity" when he realizes that his one true love, Miss Kenton married another man because he kept their relationship strictly professional.