Positive parenting
Control and maturity
Three stages of maturity (Do not depend on age)
Stage 1: most of the control is taken by others
Stage 2: balance of your own conrol and the control of others
Stage 3: most of the control is in your own hands
Lineup for the control
№1 Self
№2 Parents
№3 The state agencies
The Division of Child and Family
The juvenile court system
The police
Self-centered, selfish, demanding, manipulative, tantrum-throwing
Cooperative, negotiating, compromise-seeking
Responsible, moral and ethics driven, proactive
Three C's of parenting
Stage 1: Consequences without cooperation
Stage 2: Consequences with cooperation and Communication
Stage 3: Consultation