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- - - - make my friends upset
        they suggest me to go out more instead of staying at the room during all breaks.
        
        Although I like to be with friends and did that sometimes, I enjoy the freedom and solitude inside my room more.
        
        I began to doubt if I should behave normally by going out more since all my friends (and the social general values) did so.
        
        The misunderstanding that I heard most oftern:
        You must be too bored and lonely.
        Don't be too shy to hang out with friends.
  - - - I suddenly reliazed that I was influenced by the powerful values: being extroverted is what active participants are supposed to do.
        
        I reflect on my belief on being an introvert and decide to insist on my values instead of catering in/fitting in the standards.
  - - - Although I sincerely appreciate his kindness and support to me with understanding that there were no underlying meanings under these words, I still felt a bit uncomfortable since I personally prefer to stay in my room alone with the same reason as Mr.K like to go out.
        
        Through our weekly conversations, his belief that we all should go out on weekends baffled me greatly as I began to adjust my behaviours to meet the general standards of extroverts, such as being sociable, active, and practicing many leadership skills.
- - - - I realize that we need to think deeply of the situation before blaming the misbehaviours easily.
- - - - I waited for another 10 minutes but the boy smoothly transformed to the planning of this activity, coming up with ideas enthusiastically, without saying that sentence.
        
        I looked down at my notes and felt a little bit upset. I began imagine what if I let the teacher know my ideas after the meeting.
        
        I decided not to trouble myself and got rid of my ideas.
        
        Let them know:
        they might ask why I do not stand up in the meeting.
        also ask me to talk about my plans in the next meeting, which I do not prefer
        reset everything, which will make others annoyed.