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Family Conflicts (Proud 301 #5) - Coggle Diagram
Family Conflicts (Proud 301 #5)
How to prevent conflicts in the family
Accountability of behavior
Avoidance of violence
Good communication skills
Love and care
Understand rules
Awareness of emotion
Adapt oneself
Between siblings
Property
siblings share space, which means to sometimes take/borrow/use each other’s property which can lead to conflicts
Difference in age
during childhood a significant difference in age (3 years+) can mean a disparity in maturity that can cause conflict
Unequal treatment by parents
one sibling getting special treatment based on certain conditions
Competition
sibling rivalry; trying to outperform your sibling(s) on different levels (games, grades, popularity, attention from parents, etc.)
Between parents and children
Behaviors of parents
when parents are too strict, complain, not enough rules, risky behavior
Expectation
parents have excessively high expectations, too much complaints - cause stress on kids
Friend choice
parents do not approve of friends and think friends will influence their child negatively
Generation gap
parents having difficulty accepting child growing up and wanting independence
How to resolve conflicts in the family
Discuss only the present problem
Be ready to compromise
Have a sincere goal to build a happy family
Talk when you are ready to talk
Express your feelings directly
Make sure that both sides understand
each others point of view
The accused must try to understand
a problematic issue or conflict
Give the other person a chance to
explain their reasoning
Between parents
Unfaithfulness
not being faithful to one person
Lack of time for each other
not spending enough quality time with only each other
Lack of awareness of one’s responsibility
misunderstanding of each other’s jobs in the family
Violence
using violence to solve problems, acting on emotions
Difference in personality
2 different people = 2 different opinions/ideas = disagreements
Incompatibility of relatives
problems between extended families of husband and wife
Summary
In many families, conflict is a major issue. And we must be aware of the problems and their causes, as well as work to resolve them. And the greatest method is for us to take care of each other in our families, and if there is a problem, we should discuss it as soon as possible.