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Family conflict of nuclear family - Coggle Diagram
Family conflict of nuclear family
Conflict between sibling
Unequal treatment
- Example parents only love 1 of 2 child and always give a special things but not care about the second child.
Competition
- Example siblings playing game and 1 lose then the other toxic to the guy that lose. That make they mad to each other.
Property
- one of them want to borrow the shirt from sister for tonight party so she ask for it. The sister allow her to borrow her shirt but under 1 rules " don't make it dirty ". But after she come back from the party the shirt is dirty and her sister extremely mad to her.
Different age
- Example the younger child in the house ask for every things he want and the sister that older annoy of him and he always crying.
How to prevent
Create the rules and tell everyone so they can understand the rules
Good communication
Avoid of violence
Live each other equally
Conflict between parent and children
Friend choice
- Example parent think that son's friend might be bad for their kid so they try to tell their son to stay away from it. Son might don't understand and try to explain but his parent just tell him to stay away.
Generation gaps
- Parents believe in what their grandparents teach them such as to expect your kid to have a good grade or don't let them have any relationship before 20 or do not go outside with your friend. And that can confuse their kid and might have some conversation about it.
Expectation
- Example some parents expect on their kid to get a good grade and give pressure on their kid. That make the kid more pressure and might be hate of parents because of too much pressure and that can led to many bad things
Behavior of parent
- Example some parents behavior might not okay to some of their kids. Some kids might okay for it but some might not so their might be some conflict and talking about it.
Conflict between husband and wife
Unfaithfulness
- It is when you engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding.
Lack of time for each other
- For example, family member has to work all day and don't have time to spend with their family.
Lack of awareness of one's responsibility
- Example Misunderstanding someone's job in the family.
Violence
- Violence between husband and wife is when you use violence to solve problems.
Different personality
- 2 different people means 2 different opinions which leads to disagreements.
Incompatibility of relative
- It is problems between extended families of husband and wife that cannot incapable of being related or intimate with each other.
How to resolve
Find the time to talk to each other
Always talk about present problem
Talk with reason and don't use your mood
Try to make everyone understand about what problem we faced
Everyone focus on to make family happy
Summary
: Conflict usually happen from not understanding each other or making someone fell so pressure enough to act something to each other. And every time that has conflict in the family everyone will get affect even they are not in the problem with them. That isn't good for kids because they can remember everything that their members of the family did so we should stop to make conflict between members of family. We can resolve this if we make everyone in the family understand everything and each other.