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The Courage to be Disliked, Emotions, Tasks, Pursuit of superiority,…
The Courage to be Disliked
Psychology
Freudian
Etiology - Cause rather than purpose
Cause and effect
Adlerian
Teleology - Purpose rather than cause
"No matter what has occurred in your life, it should have no bearing on how you are now"
"To rid one's problems, all one can do is live in the universe alone" - Adler
Praise vs Rebuke
Vertical Relationship
Manipulation
Horizontal Relationship
Encouragement
Gratitude
Inferiority
Complex
Abnormal and complicated state
Oedipus complex
Interpersonal Relationships
All problems from interpersonal relationships
"You've avoided interpersonal relationships by disliking yourself"
Dislike
Individual Psychology
Freedom
Comrades
Self-acceptance
"Accepting one's irreplaceable "this me" just as it is."
Confidence in others
Enemies
Doubt
Competition
Community
The universe is our community
Not limited to a specific setting
Do not cling to small communities
Refuge
"I am to use of someone"
Contribution to others
Happiness
"Harmony of life"
Incongruity
Life
Energeial (actual-active-state)
Existing in moments
Kinetic (dynamic)
Emotions
Tool
Holism - don't control you
Objective vs Subjective world
Tasks
Separation of tasks
Friendship
Love
Work
Attachment to self to concern for others
"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"
Pursuit of superiority
Feeling inferior
Help for growth
Value judgement
Showing off to cover feelings of inferiority
Spotlight on the now