Humble, feedback, learner and encourage a culture of learning in others- surround myself with wise counselors. value and appreciate cultural diversity and develop my cross-cultural inteligence and relationships, have fun, joy...be a model of how to follow well. model well in follow well. give appropriate attention to healthy boundaries adn balance, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. when i was a pastor,,,,people came,,,go back to the basic...do u sleep well, eat, read bible?...