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Kadence Schuld - Coggle Diagram
Kadence Schuld
Commercials
There are commercials that talk about sex, sexual abuse, and drugs, my siblings are 12 and under and they are looking at commercials and being influenced by these commercials.
Church
I grew up very religious, I have grown up knowing that sex is something that should wait until after marriage. Never have children until you are married and you are ready to have kids, and both people in the relationship have to want kids. Be smart!
Siblings
my siblings are all younger than me so they don't really know what sex is. This is just a topic that my siblings don't really know about. Don't talk about sex at an age you won't understand talk about it when you get into 4th or 5th grade.
Music
There are lots of Country Songs that talk about having sex, loving someone, pressuring a girl to do something that they don't want to do, in music videos they will have girls in the background with not a lot of clothes on, and it is usually guys that are singing with the girls in the background, only listen to appropriate music for your age.
Social Media
I don't really have social media all I have is facebook messenger, so I don't really care about social media, my friends have it and we talk about it sometimes but It just doesn't influence me that much.
Friends
My friends don't really talk about this stuff, none of my friends are really religious but I don't feel pressured by them. Most of the time. If they do pressure me it is on good things like trying out for sports and stuff like that. Make sure you talk to someone if you are getting pressured in a negative way.
Family
My whole family is religious, my parents believe in sex after marriage, my mom has talked to me about the human body and when is an appropriate time to think and do sex, my mom has said that if I had any questions she would be happy to talk to me, because there is a lot of peer pressure and opinions in middle and high school she doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable, so if I am having problems with something I have someone to talk to. My siblings are too young to understand what it is so I talk to my mom if I have questions. Always know that you have someone to talk to.
Mr.M
Mr.M has talked about being responsible, always use protection if you are going to have sex, consent is always key, babies are expensive, always talk to you partner about it, and always be SMART, always use abstinence!
Boyfriends
I have never had a boyfriend. But by looking at a lot of relationships of people in middle and high school I think that they just want it for more of the physical things in a relationship. Not all are like that but some are.
Movies/ tv shows
In movies they will have a love seen or smoking, drugs, and inappropriate behavior and that is what they are teaching kids, that it is ok to do that stuff when it is really not, make sure you always check the rating and the previews to see if it has inappropriate content.