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Leil Lowndes how to talk to anyone
Part 1. How to intrigue everyone without saying a word: you only have ten seconds to show you're a somebody
How to make your smile magically different
How to fine-tune your smile
How to strike everyone as intelligent and insightful by using your eyes
Make your eyes look even more intelligent
What about guys's eyes?
How to use your eyes to make someone fall in love with you
Use epoxy eyes to push their erotic button
How to look like a big winner wherever you go
Your posture is your biggest success barometer
How to win their heart by responding to their "Inner infant"
You're on trial - and you only have ten seconds
Treat people like big babies
How to make someone feel like an old fried at once
How to trick your body into doing everything right
Not a word need be spoken
A self-fulfilling prophecy
How to come across as 100 percent credible to everyone
Beware of the appearance of lying - Even when you're telling the truth
How to read people like you have ESP
If a horse can do it, so can you
How to make sure you don't miss a single beat
"Twenty-six miles on my mattress"
Part 2. How to know what to say after you say "Hi"
How to start great small talk
Matching their mood can make or break the sale
How to sound like you've got a super personality (No matter what you're saying!)
"What's a good opening line when i meet people?"
Why banal makes a bond
Ascent from banality
"Anything, except liverwurst!"
How to make people want to start conversation with you
The whatzit way to love
Be a whatwiz seeker, too
How to meet the people you want to meet
How to break into a tight crowd
How to make "Where are you from?" sound exciting
Different bait for shrimp or sharks
How to come out a winner every time they ask, "and what do you do?"
Painful memories of naked job flashers
How to introduce people like the host(ess) with the most(est)
How to resuscitate a dying conversation
Be a sleuth on their slips of the tongue
How to enthrall 'em with your choice of topic - them!
Sell yourself with a top sales technique
How to never need to wonder, "What do i say next?"
"What do i say next?"
Parroting your way to profits
How to get'em happily chatting (so you can slip away if you want to!)
"Tell 'em about the time you..."
Play it again, sam
How to come across as a positive person
How to always have something interesting to say
Part 3. How to talk like a VIP
How to find out what they do (without even asking!)
The right way to find out
How to know what to say when they ask, "What do you do?"
"Here's how my life can benefit yours"
A nutshell Rèsumè for your private life
How to sound even smarter than you are
And now, for men only
More unisex suggestions
How to not sound anxious (Let them discover your similarity)
Oh, i must have been boring you
How to be a "You-firstie" to gain their respect and affection
Comm-YOU-nicate when you want a favor
Comm-YOU-nicate your complements
Comm-YOU-nication is a sign of sanity
How to make them feel you "Don't smile at just anybody"
Review your repertoire of smiles
In defense of the quickie
How to avoid sounding like a jerk
How to use motivational speakers' technique to enhance your conversation
A gem for every occasion
Make 'em laugh, make 'em laugh, make 'em laugh
A word of warning
How to bartender like the big shots do (big winners tell it like it is)
How to avoid the world's worst conversational habit
How to give them the bad news (and have them like you all more)
How to respond when you don't want to answer (and wish they'd shut the heck up)
How to talk to a celebrity
"I love what you used to be [you has-been]"
How to make them want to thank you
Part 4. How to be an insider in any crowd: what are they all talking about?
How to be a modern-day renaissance man or woman
Go fly a kite!
Do you speak scuba?
How to sound like you know all about their job or hobby
It's all in the opening question
"Help! Everybody there will be an artist"
How to bare their hot button (Elementary Doc-talk)
Getting the real grabber
See you at the big one!
How to secretly learn about their lives
Pump their pulp for even more fuel
How to talk when you're in other countries
How to talk them into getting the "Insider's price" (On practically anything you buy)
How to deal when there's no iggy in your life
Part 5. How to sound like you're peas in a pod: "why, we're just alike!"
How to make them feel you're of the same "class"
They're buying you, too
How to make them feel that you're like "family"
It all started across the ocean
The linguistic device that says "We're on the same wavelength"
Echoing at parties
The peril of not echoing
Professional echoing
Echoing is politically correct insurance
How to really make it clear to them
On-target analogies hit bull's-eye
How to make them feel you empathize (Without just saying "yep, uh huh, yeah")
What are empathizers?
How to make them think you see/hear/feel it just the way they do
A wrinkle develops
A simple solution
How to make 'em think we (Instead of you vs. me)
Level one: clichés
Level Two: Facts
Level Three: Feelings and personal questions
Level Four: We statements
How to create a friendly "Private joke" with them
Now what's left?
Part 6. How to differentiate the power of praise from the folly of flattery
How to compliment someone (Without sounding like you're brownnosing)
No-risk praise (do it behind their back)
How to be a "Carrier pigeon" of good feelings
Carry more cargo than compliments
How to make 'em feel your admiration "Just slipped out"
How to win their hearts by being an "Undercover complimenter"
Try it. You'll like it. They'll love it.
How to make 'em never forget you with a "Killer compliment"
The killer compliment user's manual
How to make 'em smile with "itty-bitty boosters"
Little things mean a lot
How to praise with perfect timing
Quick as a hiccup, you must compliment NOW
But what if they really bombed?
How to make 'em want to compliment you
"Girls don't like what?"
"Vous Etes gentil"
How to make a loved one feel you are THE partner for life
"I love you because..." (you fill in the blank)
Part 7. How to direct dial their hearts
How to sound more exciting on the phone
How to sound close (Even if you're hundreds of miles away)
How to make 'em happy they called you
When a pain in the neck calls
How to sneak past the gatekeeper
How to get what you want on the phone from big shots
How to get what you want - by timing!
Salesforlks, wait for the green light
How to impress everyone with your outgoing voicemail message
How to get them to call you back
Stay tuned for...
How to make the gatekeeper think you're buddy-buddy with the VIP
How to make them say you have super sensitivity
How to "listen between the lines" on the phone
How to set up your instant replay
Forget what they said, hear what they meant
Part 8. How to work a party like a politician works a room: the politician's six-point party checklist
How to avoid the most common party blooper
How to make an unforgettable entrance
How to meet the people YOU want to meet
"Only the beautiful people will be chosen"
"Sure, in a seminar, it's easy, but what about real life?"
How to subliminally lure people to you at a gathering
Give them the Ol' wrist flash
Pave a clear path for people who find you special
How to make 'em feel like a movie star
Don't leave it to chance
How to amaze them with what you remember about them
How to make the sale with your eyeballs
How jimmi finds out where the buck stops
What to do when you get your cue
Eyeballing is not for selling only
A quick review
Part 9. How to break the most treacherous glass ceiling of all: sometimes people are tigers
How to win their affection by overlooking their bloopers
Let me suffer in your silence
How to win their heart when their tongue is faltering
How to let 'em know "What's in it" for them
Don't deny them the pleasure of helping you
How to make them want to do favors for you
How to ask for favors (and get them!)
How to know what not to say at parties
How to know what not to say at dinner
How to know what not to say in a chance meeting
How to prepare them to listen to you
When you have important information
I'm going to make you miserable before you can enjoy being my customer"
How to turn their anger around (in three sentences or less)
"Oh, No! he must have been mortified!"
How to make 'em like you (Even when you've messed up)
How to trap a rat with class
"Mea culpa!"
How to get whatever you want from service personnel
How to be a leader in a crowd, not a follower
Cool cats clap first
How to make all the right moves
Friends keep tabs too
Your destiny